It does confuse me sometimes on how fathers can have children and actively chose not to be in their lives. But I have come to understand that it is not my job to make a “father” be something they do not want to be. Doing so leads to frustration for you and frustration for the […]Read More You can’t force a Father to be part of his child’s life.
Finally the door has shut for my baby daddy and it’s the best feeling ever. I completely chose to cut contact with him and it is the best decision I ever made. I stopped beating myself up because he wasn’t creating time for his daughter or sending child support. If the father of your child […]Read More Moving On
I am not the same person I was but I totally love the new me. So as I moved forward with my life without the father of my child, I learned a number of valuable lessons. I learned about the joys and struggles of being a single mother by being there whole heartedly for my […]Read More Part 4: Found My Closure
You may want to judge me for cutting him off and most people say your daughter needs her father. Well I wish he was responsible and mature enough to see that and actually be there for his daughter. I cannot force him to be in his daughter’s life and I cannot tell him what he […]Read More Part 3
I will skip a lot of detail on the part where he gave the other woman his phone especially in the middle of the night so she could throw abuses and accusations at me from when I was pregnant to when I delivered because it was a long cycle. I did not understand that at […]Read More My journey as a single mom part 2
The father of my child taught me a lot about myself and life in general. I learnt that you should never believe people at their face value neither should you believe what they say. As I grew up I had goals and ambitions. It was never in my dreams to imagine that I would be […]Read More My journey as a single mom Part 1
Thanks for joining me! Good company in a journey makes the way seem shorter. — Izaak WaltonRead More The Journey Begins